You should have built your

“You should have built your personality very consciously, but unfortunately, for most people, over 90% of their personality is built unconsciously. It is molded by the situations in which they are living and being exposed to. If one becomes truly meditative, one of the basic qualities of meditation is that it creates a distance between you and your personality, and then you can make your personality as necessary for a particular situation.” – Sadhguru